Stop looking for your other half.
What?!
That may sound absolutely paradoxical to anything you've heard before, however searching for your "other half" unfortunately does imply that you aren't a whole person in the first place. It implies, that you don't have everything inside of you already that you need to live a very happy life. Isn't life about truly realizing ourselves and who we are deep inside?
As an alternative, look for the person who will be your teammate.
Look for someone who can be your support system, who wants you to be better for yourself, who will improve upon themselves daily, who will be there for you when your life starts to get rocky and who will come to you for love and support. If you look for someone who will be your partner in crime, not your missing piece, you will develop a much stronger relationship.
Stop searching for your missing piece.
If there's any guarantee in life, it's that things vanish as quick as they arrive. Even the amazing relationships that stand the test of time finally end and you need to go on living your life. The person who is going to be there for you for some considerable time would also wish that you would not be damaged to pieces when they are gone. Of course it's going to hurt, but they would want you to continue living in the way that you were when they were around. So be a whole person who can love another completely. Be the best version you may be for yourself and let another to dream with you on how to change the world.
You are not deficient in anything. You are not lacking what you need. Rather, if you see yourself as a complete person who has a lot to offer this world you will show up willing to present who you truly are to everyone around you. Naturally, you will attract the person into your life who is perfect for you.
Find your teammate, you'll be much better off. When you do, your relationship will bloom.
What?!
That may sound absolutely paradoxical to anything you've heard before, however searching for your "other half" unfortunately does imply that you aren't a whole person in the first place. It implies, that you don't have everything inside of you already that you need to live a very happy life. Isn't life about truly realizing ourselves and who we are deep inside?
As an alternative, look for the person who will be your teammate.
Look for someone who can be your support system, who wants you to be better for yourself, who will improve upon themselves daily, who will be there for you when your life starts to get rocky and who will come to you for love and support. If you look for someone who will be your partner in crime, not your missing piece, you will develop a much stronger relationship.
Stop searching for your missing piece.
If there's any guarantee in life, it's that things vanish as quick as they arrive. Even the amazing relationships that stand the test of time finally end and you need to go on living your life. The person who is going to be there for you for some considerable time would also wish that you would not be damaged to pieces when they are gone. Of course it's going to hurt, but they would want you to continue living in the way that you were when they were around. So be a whole person who can love another completely. Be the best version you may be for yourself and let another to dream with you on how to change the world.
You are not deficient in anything. You are not lacking what you need. Rather, if you see yourself as a complete person who has a lot to offer this world you will show up willing to present who you truly are to everyone around you. Naturally, you will attract the person into your life who is perfect for you.
Find your teammate, you'll be much better off. When you do, your relationship will bloom.
About the Author:
Live your dream. Evan Sanders is a professional life coach at AYKME Life Coaching and writes articles about this daily journey of life. Dive into these Life Changing Quotes to inspire you to live your best life. Also, if you have a chance, check out these Strong Women Quotes to find that perfect teammate.
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