Monday 30 September 2013

The Law Of Attraction

By Natasha A. Unzueta


Success in a relationship is not a matter of chance. People live a happy life because they decided for it, and not because someone or something did it for them. Winning the heart of the person you want in your life may take time, but is never impossible. The universal laws of attraction can bring about such a positive outlook in life provided that you keep an open mind. It is said to have changed a lot of lives for the better, and there are ways to make it work for you too.

Since The Secret movie and book became extremely popular, increasingly more people now know about the laws of attraction. After reading the book, like millions of people worldwide, I believed that everyone had the power to make life changes to suit their personal preferences. However, I discovered later that The Secret was missing vital information about the laws of attraction. Read on to find out more.

In The Secret, the law of attraction is described as a natural law that can determine the order of our personal lives and the universe through a process called like attracts like. This means that our thoughts and feelings send out corresponding frequencies to the universe and this attracts similar circumstances and events back to us. For instance, positive thoughts and feelings will attract positive circumstances and events. The law also claims that if an individual change their thoughts and feelings they could attract desirable outcomes which includes happiness, better health and more wealth. Basically, the law attraction means that thoughts are like magnets so whatever they dwell on will attract similar thoughts back into our life.

In order to successfully control your life circumstances using the law of attraction, there are three phases that you must undergo. The first phase is you must know what you want to achieve. Knowing exactly what you want and ask for it. In other words, you must focus on what you want, rather than on what you don't want. All the successful people throughout history have had one characteristic inherent within them that is they are clear with what they want to achieve. They have great drive and passion to pursue their dreams. As a result, they thrive and succeed in their endeavours.

Feel good about yourself. If you feel good, you look good. We are all beautiful in our own way. If you do not see your own worth, neither will other people. Feeling good about yourself allows you to do your best and be cool around people. Shyness is justifiable, but insecurity begets negative impressions. Keep a positive attitude. An optimistic attitude helps keep the love intact. But if you always think that the relationship will not last long, sooner or later this is what will happen. The same goes if you are still looking for someone to love. If you do not trust that you can find one, then you wont.Many scientists and theorists from across the globe have come to the conclusion that everything is regulated and governed by a set of universal laws such as the law of cause and effect and the law of gravity.

But, The Secret's Law of Attraction doesn't work this way. Even though you are encouraged to maintain a positive attitude, believe in your success, have confidence and so on, those positive thoughts definitely will not send out magical brainwave frequencies to change the realities of life. There is no doubt that you will have similar experiences to the millions of people who did not get the desired results from this book.You may ask yourself this question if you believe in the Law of Attraction but have not had the results you wished for. I know I have had my doubts from time to time... being able to manifest small things here and there but never achieving the level of success I had hoped for. I often wondered why could I think of a friend one minute and have her phone an hour later, but when it came to manifesting large sums of money I failed miserably. In fact, just the other day I thought "um I need to get a new headlight" and as I thought to myself "I haven't had anyone tell me it's out for a while", low and behold within a half an hour of having that thought a women yelled out her window to let me know my driver side headlight was burned out! That to me is the Law of Attraction working. Some may say... well that's just coincidence and not the Law of Attraction but I say different.

The Law of Attraction gained a lot of publicity back in 2006 when the film the secret was launched which was a documentary type film where some of the leading experts appeared on camera to give an insight into what the Law of Attraction is and how it works.The film was good for the newcomer who knew little or nothing about the law of attraction but at the same time it really only touched the tip of the iceberg and gave no reasoning regarding how this powerful law of the universe works or its true origins.

Well, the answer to that is simple too.According to Bob Proctor one of the key figures in the hit move The Secret and very successful Motivational Speaker, there are in fact 11 laws that accompany the Law of Attraction and they were simply left out of the movie. So, most people got the basic "jisk" of the Law but not the full version of it. Thus, leaving people frustrated and doubtful like me. He believes that great results will be achieved once the 11 Laws are learnt and applied.

You see... we all have certain beliefs that we were taught as children. Such beliefs can leave us to stop or block the manifesting process. Bob calls these beliefs "paradigms" If we belief that forgiving someone means we are letting them get away with what they did and need to be punished then we are creating blocks that will not allow us to attract anything positive. The same is true if we belief that "money is the root of all evil" (and many of us were taught this as children) then we will never be able to manifest wealth like we want.

You must learn to bring the energy of your thoughts from the conscious mind into the subconscious mind. This is why the need or purpose needs to be so strong. Once there, the subconscious take it and runs with it manifesting itself in the body where action takes place and causes our results.Another way of stating this is called Creative Visualization. It is the basic technique that you positively and effectively reprogram your subconscious mind and attract more things and circumstances that you constantly choose.Study the Laws of the Universe (perpetual transmutation, relativity, vibration, polarity, rhythm, cause and effect, and gender). I used them in my articles on public speaking. The Law of Attraction is manifest through the Laws of the Universe.




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