Do you have any idea how much you are communicating without saying a single word? This may come as a huge surprise to men, who are notorious for complaining about how much women want to "talk", but you have already spoken volumes just by the way you walk into a room! Recent research states that 50% of your communications will be non-verbal and involve how you dress and your body language flirting technique.
Relating to Women
Just when you thought you had it all figured out! For men who have practiced their lines and become determined to open up more with a woman in conversation the idea of body language and silent communication is a foreign concept. Believe it or not guys you tell a woman a lot about yourself just in the way you stand! Is it even slightly possible there is something in your body language that is turning women off? There are a few basic things you want to communicate to women if you are looking for a date, they include but are not limited to: Confidence Strength Power Openness
How do you achieve all this without saying a word?
Posture to Avoid
You may need to pull out a full-length mirror to fully understand body language (don't worry, we won't tell!). Now take a moment to pretend you are in a social setting, how do you stand? Are your arms folded against your chest or hands buried in your pockets? This is a very closed off stance, it says "leave me alone" in no uncertain terms! Let your arms fall naturally to your sides; this is a much more open message to those around you. Other postures to avoid at all cost:
Drooping Shoulders- poor posture is developed over time and may be second nature to you now; however, it tells women that you have very little self-confidence. Fidgeting- do you constantly mess with your watch, adjust your tie or fun your fingers through your hair? This communicates nervousness, which is akin to low self-esteem and weakness.
Walk- do you pay attention to your feet when you walk? Staring at your shoes is another sign of weak confidence, but you do have to pay attention to how you are walking. Practice walking with your feet straight ahead as much as possible, because duck walking is simply not attractive.
Body Language Women Love
The first rule of body language in a social setting is never be a shrinking violet. Do not be afraid to take up some room both when sitting down for a casual chat and while walking around the room. When you are determined but at ease you will catch the eye of all the single ladies in the room, (and some not so single ones as well).
Where are your eyes in all of this? Do you tend to shy away from direct eye contact? This is a normal reaction but it is not a habit you want to get started. Keep your eyes forward and make eye contact with the people you meet. This tells a woman you are confident and have nothing whatsoever to hide.
When it comes to what to wear you should definitely take time to choose clothing that are stylish, fashionable and above all clean and well pressed! That being said the most attractive thing you will ever put on is a smile. A natural smile can communicate volumes; however, this does not mean go around with one plastered on your face 24/7. Instead, work on learning to smile gently on demand and let that smile reach your eyes!
Conclusion
Following these tips makes it easy to get a girlfriend. Basically, if you have been struggling with what to say to attractive women, perhaps you first need to work on how to speak without talking at all! For some men all of this comes perfectly natural, for others there is a learning curve, but the bottom line is any man can master the art of body language.
Relating to Women
Just when you thought you had it all figured out! For men who have practiced their lines and become determined to open up more with a woman in conversation the idea of body language and silent communication is a foreign concept. Believe it or not guys you tell a woman a lot about yourself just in the way you stand! Is it even slightly possible there is something in your body language that is turning women off? There are a few basic things you want to communicate to women if you are looking for a date, they include but are not limited to: Confidence Strength Power Openness
How do you achieve all this without saying a word?
Posture to Avoid
You may need to pull out a full-length mirror to fully understand body language (don't worry, we won't tell!). Now take a moment to pretend you are in a social setting, how do you stand? Are your arms folded against your chest or hands buried in your pockets? This is a very closed off stance, it says "leave me alone" in no uncertain terms! Let your arms fall naturally to your sides; this is a much more open message to those around you. Other postures to avoid at all cost:
Drooping Shoulders- poor posture is developed over time and may be second nature to you now; however, it tells women that you have very little self-confidence. Fidgeting- do you constantly mess with your watch, adjust your tie or fun your fingers through your hair? This communicates nervousness, which is akin to low self-esteem and weakness.
Walk- do you pay attention to your feet when you walk? Staring at your shoes is another sign of weak confidence, but you do have to pay attention to how you are walking. Practice walking with your feet straight ahead as much as possible, because duck walking is simply not attractive.
Body Language Women Love
The first rule of body language in a social setting is never be a shrinking violet. Do not be afraid to take up some room both when sitting down for a casual chat and while walking around the room. When you are determined but at ease you will catch the eye of all the single ladies in the room, (and some not so single ones as well).
Where are your eyes in all of this? Do you tend to shy away from direct eye contact? This is a normal reaction but it is not a habit you want to get started. Keep your eyes forward and make eye contact with the people you meet. This tells a woman you are confident and have nothing whatsoever to hide.
When it comes to what to wear you should definitely take time to choose clothing that are stylish, fashionable and above all clean and well pressed! That being said the most attractive thing you will ever put on is a smile. A natural smile can communicate volumes; however, this does not mean go around with one plastered on your face 24/7. Instead, work on learning to smile gently on demand and let that smile reach your eyes!
Conclusion
Following these tips makes it easy to get a girlfriend. Basically, if you have been struggling with what to say to attractive women, perhaps you first need to work on how to speak without talking at all! For some men all of this comes perfectly natural, for others there is a learning curve, but the bottom line is any man can master the art of body language.
About the Author:
Confidently attract beautiful women! Andy Aidam, dating mentor to shy men, teaches you how to attract a woman you like with confidence. Read his easy-to-follow tips on how to be confident with girls today.
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