Friday, 18 March 2011

There's Nice Guys And Then There's Real Nice Guys

By Alex Decoto


What is a real man? Is it some jerk who goes around acting childish? Or is it a true masculine man who isn't that insecure that he needs to use fake manipulation in order to attract a woman. I would bet my life on the second guys. Here is why.

Women are not attracted to shy guys who cater to their every need. Actually, women really despise these men. These men get stomped on by other people. I used to be one of these guys. I was smiling when I saw women. I was willing to do everything for women. Well, as they say, a good dead never goes unpunished. Well, this is especially evident for success with women. Women will say that you are nice and great. But, most of them, especially the ones you like, will not have sex with you. Plus, nice guys are not so nice. They are manipulative and passive aggressive. They only act nice because they think it will bring them success.

What I endorse is a confident gentleman style. It means that you are assertive and confident, but in a nice way. You don't insult women. I have to clear this up. It's different to playfully tease women and to insult them. Insulting a woman is something that insecure jerks do. True high class gentlemen don't do these kinds of things.

A mature masculine man doesn't need to show off. He doesn't need to insult women. He doesn't need to be above the woman. He only needs to show his true authenticity. It's the hardest to do that. Anyone can act like a insensitive jerk. Real masculine men are however very rare, just like vintage sports cars. Everyone wants them.

If you work on yourself and become this type of man, you can be the one women compete over.




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