Sunday, 4 October 2009

Why Does One Procrastinate?

By Allison Thompson

There are many things which can stop you as a person from succeeding in life, but the biggest one of them all is procrastination. It is procrastination which can prevent a person from actually achieving their goals and put obstacles in their way. It is procrastination which can also make a person choose a particular path which will result in them not achieving what it was they first set out to do.

But just how can some one tell if they are a procrastinator or even the aren't? Well below we provide you with some pointers which will help you to understand better what procrastination is and whether you are doing it without really knowing about it.

1. A large number of procrastinators (around 20%) will soon identify that they are chronic procrastinator's and will know that it leads to them leading a particular kind of lifestyle. The lifestyle they lead will often intrude into all aspects of their life causing it to be very difficult to lead what is considered to be a normal life.

2. For many procrastinators actually managing what time they have available to them in order to complete a certain task is not a problem. Rather they will find it more difficult to sit down and work how just how much time it is they need in order to complete the task in hand.

3. A person who procrastinates is not born with this affliction, but rather they make it of their own volition. Although they may not know it they will learn it through the life they lead as they grow up from the people surrounding them. Often a child who comes from a family with controlling parents will often be a procrastinator more than those that don't. These type of children will find it difficult to regulate themselves and find it difficult to act on any ideas or thoughts they may have to help themselves.

4. For some procrastinators they will rely far more on other substances to help them avoid the effects that their procrastination is having on their lives. For quite a few they will turn to alcohol or other substances which can help to numb or block out the effects and causes of their procrastination. They may especially rely on these things at those times in their lives when they think things are really bad even when they are not.

5. Many people who procrastinate will look for those distractions which avoid them from committing to those things that are important. So often they will try and go for the tasks that they find easy to do and know which they can complete without feeling guilty. They avoid the much harder tasks simply because they feel that they do not have abilities or skill required in order to complete them properly.

Yet for those who have identified that they do procrastinate there are certain things that they can do which can help them to make changes and fight procrastinating. Although it is important that when looking for ways to prevent yourself from procrastinating that the changes you make will take time to help you. A person can undergo cognitive behavioral with a trained therapist as a way of making the necessary changes in their lives as well as to understand better why the procrastinate.

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