Thursday 29 October 2009

Bring Your Girlfriend Back before Christmas

By Simi Surin

A relationship is like a yo-yo ride. You can never tell whether you are coming or going. So what to do if the ride ends so rudely and without any telltale signs. In such a scenario it is imperative to maintain your cool. If you can succeed in that, then you may think of winning your ex girlfriend back.

If a relationship is heading southward, the best thing that one can do is to keep the communication channels open. That way can you not only save yourself but also your girlfriend from an impending heartbreak. And who knows this quality of yours brings you together again.

One of the very first things that you will need to do if you want to get back your ex girl is to think back to the reasons why the relationship ended. This will be of help as these issues will rear their head once more.

It takes guts to revive a relationship. So do your homework first. Is that really what you want? Or is it another impulsive act like the one of splitting up? If possible, just hang it for some time. Decide about it at some other opportune moment.

If you are being honest and mean that, then there is no reason that you will not get your ex back, you will. Just be responsive and appreciative of her feelings towards you. Remember every compromising formula must end in a win-win situation.

Since everything is cyclic so are all relationships. Togetherness and seperation are the different sides of the coin called love. If you do not like the sight of seperation, flip the coin. You will soon be back with your ex girlfriend.

It is an idea worth executing if you are contemplating taking advice of concerned family members. Do it without hesitation. They must know that you are serious in securing your love and happiness. Come what may, your girlfriend will soon be on your arm.

In case everything goes topsy-turvy and you end up being more bitter and frustrated. Take heart! There is something better in store for you. Get up and get going. The failure is not in fallng - it is in staying there.

Even after displaying amply that you are in forgive and forget mode, the things may not fall as you wished. Move on, there is no point looking at a closed door forlornly. Just ensure that it is shut firmly so that the past does not haunt you.

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