Some of the closely guarded pick up artist techniques out there are no secret at all. You just have to remember that nothing is more important than your conversation. Nonverbal communication like winking or playing footsie work too, but you can only get a woman to date you by talking to her.
Prepare for Conversation
How do you keep the talk going? Exactly like in Boy Scouts, you have got to be equipped. You don't need a whole list of routines and stories you're going to use every time you go out. But it is certainly a good plan to be prepared ahead of time and bring several notes with you into the field.
Of course, bringing a list to the club with you seems dorky, but every guy I know - even the most successful pick up artists out there - bring something. It might just be an introduction or some idea for conversational material in case the discussion dries up.
A good way to do this is to put it on your cellphone. I keep information saved under a girl's name and when I run out of material to converse about, I flip open my phone and locate something really fast. Then, I steer the conversation into that next.
Material for Conversation
A movie cannot be successful if the story itself is bad. The same goes for a conversational piece. Think of all the times in your life when a story made you laugh. You can come up with the funniest, most entertaining materials from the things happening around you. If you have a lot, save some for the next girl.
You've also got to know about good topics. For example, things that are on TV, partying, comedians, tattoos, Eastern values, stuff women care about, and so on. Yet again, do various field research. When you're at the club, take note of the subjects girls like to chat about.
You should also keep a list of stuff you think women find charming about you. For example, you play in a rock band or you volunteer somewhere. Don't just blab that out, but find ways to slip it into the chat. The point isn't to try and impress her, but to find out the stuff girls like about you because these are discussion topics. They can also be commonalities that you can connect on.
Some of the most important pick up artist techniques have something to do with conversation. And so, this is something you have to do really well.
Prepare for Conversation
How do you keep the talk going? Exactly like in Boy Scouts, you have got to be equipped. You don't need a whole list of routines and stories you're going to use every time you go out. But it is certainly a good plan to be prepared ahead of time and bring several notes with you into the field.
Of course, bringing a list to the club with you seems dorky, but every guy I know - even the most successful pick up artists out there - bring something. It might just be an introduction or some idea for conversational material in case the discussion dries up.
A good way to do this is to put it on your cellphone. I keep information saved under a girl's name and when I run out of material to converse about, I flip open my phone and locate something really fast. Then, I steer the conversation into that next.
Material for Conversation
A movie cannot be successful if the story itself is bad. The same goes for a conversational piece. Think of all the times in your life when a story made you laugh. You can come up with the funniest, most entertaining materials from the things happening around you. If you have a lot, save some for the next girl.
You've also got to know about good topics. For example, things that are on TV, partying, comedians, tattoos, Eastern values, stuff women care about, and so on. Yet again, do various field research. When you're at the club, take note of the subjects girls like to chat about.
You should also keep a list of stuff you think women find charming about you. For example, you play in a rock band or you volunteer somewhere. Don't just blab that out, but find ways to slip it into the chat. The point isn't to try and impress her, but to find out the stuff girls like about you because these are discussion topics. They can also be commonalities that you can connect on.
Some of the most important pick up artist techniques have something to do with conversation. And so, this is something you have to do really well.
About the Author:
Jon Sinn is the creator of the Seduction Roadmap, a groundbreaking program that teaches men all over the world how to seduce women.
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