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Friday, 18 February 2011

What Nice Guys Have In Common

By Alex Decoto


Some men are confident and women like them. Others are not confident and women avoid them. Why?

For most of my life, I was the one who suffered a lot with women. I always just assumed that I wasn't built to be successful with women. I thought that women don't simply want men like me and that it was never going to change. I was very jealous of men who were successful with women. I never understood why they got to have an abundance of women, while I was stuck with zero success. Instead of hanging out with them and learning from them, I rejected everything they did and I avoided having them as friends. My rejected of them was in fact because I couldn't handle that they had success, while I didn't.

Here are some cold facts. It is your fault that you are not successful with women. Actually, it's not so much your fault because you weren't even aware of it.

They either have confident and successful parents, especially fathers. Most players have sex very early, earlier than the majority.

Here is the story. A shy guys will usually grow up without a father and the mother will be pretty controlling. If the father is present, he will usually incompetent with women himself. The worst combination is this kind of father and a controlling mother. By the way, that was my combination. Players usually had fathers which were players themselves. You can't choose your family though, so don't blame them. By the way, it's sad that a lot of sons grow up with only a mother today, due to the high rate of divorce.

Well, you can't change your family, but you can definitely change yourself.




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